Life with 2 under 2 (and a few things that help me survive!)

(Brother shirts from this etsy shop)

Life with 2 under 2 is not for the faint at heart. It is a very busy, messy, sleepless life, but I wouldn't have it any other way! Actually, we've been lucky enough to have so much help and support from our parents that it hasn't been too unmanageable so far. This week is actually the first full week that we have the boys at home with no additional help. So far, we are surviving and the boys are alive and fed! Success!

Camden has been warming up to his little brother being around. Every time he sees Bennett, he says "Baaaaybeeeee!" in a really high pitched voice. He also loves to lean into his head to give him kisses and says "Mmmmmwaaaahh!" It is the sweetest thing! He also loves to point out all his facial features (eyes, nose, mouth, etc) and then proceeds to point to his same feature on his face. There have only been a few instances where have had to say 'no' and teach him the word 'gentle' in the past few weeks. Hopefully, that will get better over time!

Today, I wanted to share a few products that have made this new life with 2 under 2 a bit easier:



First, I do plan to finish Bennett's nursery someday. It is getting there! I can't wait to share photos when it's completely finished. I knew I wanted to add a cute, functional rug in his room. I loved the big, fuzzy white rug we had in Camden's old room. It was perfect for him to crawl around on and made the best photo background. However, it got so dingy and dirty over time that we decided to throw it out once we moved. Enter Lorena Canals rugs! These rugs are machine washable! Hello convenience and durability! I was so happy when the company contacted me to share their brand and products. I was drawn to this rug in particular (similar style) for the neutral tones (kind of the theme of baby B's nursery) and the cute polka dot pattern. It is the perfect size for his small room and just adds a touch of interest over the boring tan carpet. If you have little ones, or are starting to decorate a nursery, I suggest looking into these rugs! There are so many cute patterns and styles!

Although, I've mostly been at home with the boys, I'm hoping to venture out with both of them soon so I can get comfortable with it. We have gone on several family walks around our neighborhood with the double stroller. I'm so glad we invested in this one! I also love the Covered Goods carseat cover (also a nursing cover!) so that Bennett is shielded from the sunlight.


Also, thank goodness for baby wearing! Baby Bennett loves to be held and Camden just wants to go go go all day long, so this Solly Baby wrap has really come in handy!


Last, but not least, I am so happy that Binxy baby sent me this awesome shopping cart hammock! I haven't yet ventured to the grocery store with both of them, but I have gone with just Bennett and it makes shopping so much easier! Before I would put the whole carseat in the cart, leaving hardly any room for my grocery items. With the Binxy baby shopping cart hammock I can safely secure the carseat in the hammock, leaving more room in the cart for items. Later, when Bennett gets a bit bigger, I can just put him right in the hammock and not worry about bringing the bulky carseat! Genius!


If you have 2 little ones or are about to have your second, I highly recommend investing in the products listed above. Trust me when I say you will pay and arm and a leg to make your life just a little bit easier! :)

*I was provided a rug from Lorena Canals and a Binxy Baby ahopping cart hammock for this post. All views and opinions are my own.

DIY Newborn Photography Tips


I just love the newborn stage! They are so snugly and sleepy. We've definitely enjoyed this time with Bennett. It's typically around 4-6 weeks when they really start 'waking up' and become more aware of their surroundings. It's definitely key to get good photos of newborns in the first few weeks of life or else it can start to be a bit more tricky when they get a bit older. 

Let me start by saying, I am NOT a professional photographer by any means. I had taken a few photos of Camden on my Nikon dslr camera when he was a newborn, but wished that I could have gotten more. I didn't want to fork out extra money for professional newborn photos (and we had already paid for photos taken in the hospital) so that was the main reason I wanted to take them myself.

This time around, I decided to invest in an extra lens and watched a few YouTube tutorials on newborn photography, shooting in manual and editing photos in Adobe Lightroom. After a few practice rounds with my new lens and editing skills, I was ready and excited to take photos of baby Bennett!

Here are my tips for taking newborn photos yourself:

1. Use a DSLR camera and a 50 mm lens. First, if you're hoping to get great, quality photos of your newborn on your iPhone or point and shoot camera you will be very disappointed. I have had my Nikon camera for a few years and was fairly comfortable using it to take photos. I recently purchased this 50 mm lens from a friend and am so glad I did! This lens is a total game changer and really takes your photos to the next level. It helps with those close up details and gives photos that blurry background that makes them look so professional.



2. Know how to shoot in manual and edit photos. If you know how to shoot in manual and you have the correct lighting, you may not even need to do much editing. I found this YouTube channel to be very helpful when it came to learning how to shoot in manual. There are 3 main aspects of shooting in manual that you need to understand which are: ISO, Aperture and Shutter Speed. Once you have these mastered, you will be able to take great photos!

When it comes to editing, I have use Adobe Lightroom (I pay the monthly package which is $9.99/mo). The best way to get that 'newborn' glow and creaminess to the photos is to bump up the exposure and bump down the contrast and clarity a bit. I didn't go in and remove any of Bennett's flaky or blotchy skin. In my opinion, I don't like to edit a baby too much. They are perfect the way they are, flaky skin and all! But, if you wanted to go more in depth with the editing and filters there are actual presets you can buy online like this one for example. 

I also use the app Afterlight on my iPhone to edit photos from my FlashAir SD memory card. This memory card is linked to wifi, so I can download photos from my Nikon camera directly to my phone wirelessly. It is a great investment and really comes in handy!



3. Set Up and Lighting. You want to make sure you are taking photos in the best possible light in your home. This will most likely be near a big open window in the middle of the day when the sunlight is at it's maximum. You do not want to turn on any lamps or overhead lighting because this will cause the photos to have a yellow tint and will not look natural.

Decide what type of props you want to involve in the photos. For the top photo in this post I set up a Boppy Lounger pillow underneath a fuzzy blanket and positioned Bennett on top of it with his personalized beanie. For the other photos in this post I simply had him on our bed with a blanket and thought it was an optimal time to snap some detail shots while the lighting was optimal. Sometimes the most natural, unplanned shots are the best!

4. Last, but not least... Be Prepared! Newborns can be a bit unpredictable at times... And by that I mean, their digestive systems can be unpredictable! Just check out these newborn photo shoots gone wrong! It's definitely important to be prepared for the worst. Have wipes, diapers, stain remover, etc on hand just in case. I will have you know right after I took that angelic photo at the top of this post, Bennett immediately pooped all over that white fuzzy blanket! Ha!



Those are my tips for taking your own newborn photos! Of course, if they don't end up they way you like you can always hire a professional. However, it is so much more convenient (and cost effective) to take them yourself if you have the time, equipment and energy! :)

#NSale Favorites under $50 + What I Bought


You guys, the Nordstrom Anniversary sale ends this weekend! Have you taken advantage any amazing deals?! I was a slacker and just placed my order on Friday, so I'm anxiously awaiting my packages this week!

I have been trying to keep my shopping budget to a minimum after baby (having a baby ain't cheap, people!) and knowing that my body will slowly be changing over the next few months, I didn't really want to 'invest' in any pieces that may not fit me in the near future.

I didn't want to pass up a good sale, though. Each item I purchased was less than $50 and I got some great pieces! I am especially excited for these Zella leggings that everyone raves about. Also, I am very excited about this top that I got in "grape leaf" (olive color). I already have it in a wine/burgundy color and I love it! I also ordered this necklace and these Spanx undies which will be great to help suck in my post baby belly. I still have a few items left in my cart that I'm contemplating pulling the trigger on, which are these jeans, this watch (which is a restock that I was waiting for! Only $15.90!) and this dress that would be a great fall staple.

There are so many great sale options that are under $50! I've broken them out into categories for you below...

Dresses:



Tops/Bottoms:



Accessories:



What was your favorite sale item purchase?